for men

from £120

The Taoists have written and taught on the subject of genital reflexology for the last five thousand years. By combining the classic Taoist sexual texts with modern reflexology theory, genital reflexology can enable any individual or couple to better understand their sexual energy and to cultivate that energy for health and well-being.

When most people hear the term reflexology, they think of foot massage. In the West, it is common to see charts that map out the areas of the body correlating to the regions of the feet. Charts like these make sense because the human body begins as a single cell that contains a blueprint for the entire body. As the body grows, energy meridians run through it and key parts of the body are mapped over and over again, based on the original blueprint. Rather like a hologram, a three-dimensional picture in which every part contains the whole, each part of the body has a mapping for the entire body. These energetic mappings are regularly used in Oriental medicine and are beginning to be more accepted in the West.

Reflexology is based on the premise that all our organs have reflex points on other parts of the body. The corresponding points are found by dividing the body into different zones. Organs in a particular zone can be stimulated by working on reflexes in the corresponding reflex-point zone. The meridians used in traditional Oriental medicine, acupuncture, and shiatsu also indicate mappings of the energetic pathways in the body.

The Taoists have long understood these energy correspondences throughout the body, and all of them are used in the Taoist healing arts. In addition to the reflexes already mentioned, Taoist literature includes reflexes for the sexual organs of men and women. These male and female reflexology zones form the basis of your genital reflexology sessions.

The most powerful reflex points on the body are the sexual organs. The whole body provides the sexual organs with energy, and the whole body (organs and glands) is stimulated when these sexual organs are stimulated.

When improperly directed, the sex impulse can be so strong and compelling that people will risk all they have, including their reputation and freedom, in order to express this drive. When this force is transmuted and directed in a positive way, however, it can be used as a powerful creative force in any endeavour that is being pursued, whether in the arts, in a career or profession, in a loving relationship, or in just developing a strong, magnetic personality.

The human is the only animal who has the ability to direct sexual energy with his or her imagination whenever desired. The only question is: How is it going to be directed? Some choose to use this energy in abusive and negative ways; some merely waste it and disperse it indiscriminately by overindulging. There are many ways in which we can express this energy, both positively and negatively. With the proper guidance, the sexual energy can be a rich treasure of joy, happiness, and passion. It can be a tool to create and maintain optimum health and vitality, transforming a mediocre life into an exceptional one, changing a stress-filled, unhapppy life into one filled with success and fulfillment. It is simply that powerful.

In cultivating sexual energy, men learn to control ejaculation and achieve a full-body orgasm rather than merely a genital orgasm. By learning to transform sperm into Chi (energy), men can become better lovers, more vibrant and youthful, and are able to activate the compassionate energy in the heart.

Sexual energy is nourishment for the totality of ourselves - the body, the mind and the spirit. It is the water of life, replenishing the gardens of the human temple.

During our sessions I will be showing you what I call 'sexercises' that you can practice at home. These exercises for sexual energy developed in the Taoist teachings are much more sophisticated and focused than in the West, where sexual cultivation is not very advanced and there are no real techniques for developing or understanding the sexual energy. The exercises go right to the source of our sexuality and cultivate it in a way that brings sexual energy and strength to those who use them properly.

Suppressing sexual energy is like trying to hold hundreds of ping-pong balls under water. If you press them down, they pop up somewhere else. Instead, sexual reflexology seeks to espress this energy in a way that will enhance your body, mind, and spirit. Otherwise this energy will seek outlets through which it will be underutilised and wasted or could even be potentially detrimental to one's overall health. Whether you have a partner or not, the ideas and exercises are vitally important to sexual health. The Taoists developed these techniques so that we can live in harmony with ourselves and others.

There is so much power behind our sexuality that without the proper knowledge of how to manage and direct that energy, it will enevitably go astray. Yet with the correct knowledge and balanced action, our sexual energy has the potential to bring happiness and joy into all aspects of our lives. It is essential that we as human beings tap into our true potential, gaining the insight to create a passionate and powerful life and become all that we are meant to be.

Kindly note that this is a full-body massage and includes a genital massage, performed from a therapeutic perspective.

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The rate for a 90-minutes tantric massage is £120

The rate for a 2-hours tantric massage combined with

karsai nei tsang is £150

Profits are donated to charity.

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